Monday, February 29, 2016

Quit Your Yelping

One of the biggest struggles with being a millennial is the bad rep we seem to have acquired. There are estimated to be 80 million millennials in this world, but the general perception of our demographic is being determined by a handful of loud mouthed, social media savvy people in their 20s.

The most recent example of this came with Talia Jane and her whining memorandum to the CEO at Yelp. She was quickly fired (SHOCKER) and now it’s a national news story. Talia is 25, and I’m 22, so we are in nearly identical times in our lives, but let me make it very clear that I do not support or agree with Little Miss Sass Mouth over on Medium.com.

In her letter she whines about how her life is not turning out the way she imagined it would when she was eight years old. Well when I was eight I wanted to have supernatural powers and be a princess, but instead I have a paycheck instead of a tiara, and Starbucks instead of a wand.

In life you don’t get an easy road, and everything in life worth getting is worth working your ass off for. From the time I was 18 years old my life consisted of getting my degree, working full time, or a combination of both. In every job I’ve had from cashier, to secretary, to marketing intern, I have worked my little millennial tail off to earn my paycheck, earn the respect of my coworkers, and to earn the right for any type of upward movement. These things are not handed to you. You do not just automatically deserve a promotion after a week of work with a new company. EARN IT.

Talia, the reason they’re making you work a year in Customer Service is to see if you’re loyal and hard working. If you can’t handle that entry level job with class, dignity, and professionalism, why should you be moved to the department of your choice? And maybe, if you wanted to live in a place where the standard of living is even higher than your ego, you should have come prepared. Work for a while somewhere that you can live and save off your paycheck. I’m moving to Nashville at the end of this year, but you know what I’m doing before I move? I’m saving 30-50% of every paycheck I earn this year.

Being an adult is hard work, that’s why you have to live for 18-21 years before you’re considered one. Life is tough, the world is not fair, and the only things you deserve are the things you earn.
Not every millennial is whiny, egotistical, needy, and completely void of any sense of personal responsibility. Many of us are hardworking, dedicated, self-sufficient, and respectful. So stop your Yelping Talia. You’re giving the other 79,999,999 millennials, including myself, a bad rep.


Wednesday, February 24, 2016

Hello from Miss Millennial


I’m pretty sure I have an idea of what you’re thinking right now, “Greeaat, another whiney millennial with a blog”. Am I right? Trust me I feel your pain. I’ve seen the explosion of news coverage about millennials and their “open and honest” letters to their bosses, or the articles about how to ‘deal’ with millennials in the workforce. Those stories and articles pop up on my Facebook feed and Yahoo News and they fill me with the same dread, disdain, and annoyance as you.

This blog is about the life of a millennial, but not in the way you might expect. I’m a normal (somewhat), hardworking, respectful twenty-something girl who is trying to survive in the awkward and painful period between college ending, and being cannonballed into the real world. I’m talking about graduating, how much life after college kind of sucks, dating (which also kind of sucks) and everything from dating apps, to job searches, to filing taxes, all from the perspective of an old-fashioned, yet modern girl.

This is going to be an adventure full of clumsiness, confusion, chaos, and luckily for you, some entertaining anecdotes. So sit back, relax, and enjoy this perilous and marvelous journey called life with me.   

Friday, February 19, 2016

Well Hello There

I'm 22 years old, on the verge of having to start adulting 100% of the time, and I am utterly TERRIFIED! But quotes like this remind me that life is about turning every terrifying task into an unforgettable adventure. Bring  it on world!